Hello, lovelies!
I’m back this Friday participating in another Let’s Talk Bookish post, as always hosted by the amazing Rukky @ Eternity Books and awesome Dani @ The Literary Lion! For this week, our topic is:
Book Blogging and Reading
This is definitely a topic that gives me a lot of f e e l i n g s so I hope you’re buckled up and prepared! Dani and Rukky always provide a list of questions to help bloggers discuss each week’s topic, so, to stop me from making everything in this post a rambling mess, I thought I’d use those to help guide me this week!
Has blogging affected your reading in a positive or negative way? If so, how?
I think it’s done both, actually!
Positives:
- Introduced me to a wonderful community of readers
- Helped me realize problematic reading habits and grow as a reader
- Introduced to and now read more diverse books
- Allowed me to form relationships with publishers
- Helped me get over my stigmas of romance and self-published books
Negatives:
- Feel a *lot* of pressure to read quickly and read a lot
- Feel guilt when I don’t read enough, don’t like a popular book or when I have to turn down review requests (or fall behind on review requests)
- Comparison game with other bloggers and their reading outputs
- Blogging takes a lot of time, which I could use for reading
- Turned reading into feeling like a job
So, it’s a very complex relationship, for me. On one hand, I am so thankful for book blogging, specifically, because it’s a wonderful platform that helps me feel connected, challenges me to grow and become better, and has introduced me to new opportunities and relationships I wouldn’t have had otherwise. Yet, it also puts a pressure on reading that I’ve never had before and has turned one of my favorite hobbies into something that also, in many ways, feels like another job (and fuck it, why do I have so many hobbies-that-are-also-jobs?).
This is especially blatant to me this week, as I haven’t really read at all, instead staying up later to play video games and taking my dog for a walk during my lunch break. And I just feel an intense amount of *guilt* at not reading, even though I am enjoying what I am doing with my time, because I’m not crossing books off of my TBR, so…yeah, it’s definitely changed my relationship with reading.
Do you think the pressures to produce content can result in a bad relationship with books?
In some ways, I definitely do! If I listen to the pressure too much and don’t remind myself that I need to remember that book blogging is 1) unpaid, 2) a hobby and 3) meant to be something I enjoy, then sometimes I can feel like reading becomes a chore, which then turns into a slump.
But, it doesn’t necessarily turn me into someone who hates books. Regardless of whether I read one book a year and a thousand, books are still one of my favorite passions to support and partake in and I don’t think that will ever change (even if the amount of time I spend reading fluctuates).
How do you balance blogging and reading?
I am *very* Type A, so having a schedule really works for me. So, for the blogging side of things, I know I want to post (usually) every MWF and I use Kal’s spreadsheet to help me plan posts in advance. I write my posts for the upcoming week on the weekend and try to blog hop once a week. For reading, my goal is read during my lunch breaks and before bed each day.
Yet, I’ve also started to incorporate trying to be kinder to myself in regards to moods and listening to myself and my needs. If I start becoming too stressed about reading or blogging (usually due to the comparison game, stressing about meeting self-imposed deadlines and goals, etc.), it is also because I am usually in the mood or need to do something else, during the time I scheduled to blog or read. So, letting myself take a step back and say, “Hey, this can wait,” can be really helpful.
Do you think you would have started blogging if it weren’t for books or vice versa?
Oh yeah! I actually started this blog in 2012 (!!) as more of an online journal to just write about my thoughts and emotions. It wasn’t until the past few years I discovered book blogging and updated my site to be the hodgepodge you know it to be today! But, I am *so* grateful that I discovered book blogging, even though it has, undoubtedly, complicated my relationship with reading.
What about you? What’s your relationship between blogging and reading? I’d love to hear your thoughts about this or, if you wrote a LTB post, link it below so I don’t miss it and can read your thoughts in-depth!
Cheers.
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Oh gosh, I hate that guilt at falling behind on review requests. Can’t even look at my inbox sometimes. And having to say no made me offer guest post slots to authors so I wouldn’t feel so bad about turning them down.
Oh, I feel this so hard, Kat. There is just never enough time in the day!
Love this post!
I love that feeling of reading a good book and wanting to scream it to the world. That’s the easy part for me… but a mixed review can be hard to write for me.
Thank you so much, Paul!
Right!? It’s so easy to write either a rant or rave review, honestly, but you’re right. Those middle reviews where I’m not bummed that I read the book, but I’m not sure I’d scream into the void about it, are definitely my least favorite.
Fascinating! My post will be going up on my blog on Tuesday.
Oooh, yay!
On the one hand, blogging has made me more organized about my reading, and I’m WAY more up to date on new releases thanks to ARCs! But I definitely suffer from guilt on my “unproductive days.” Like yesterday, when due to a combination of necessary errands and a bizarre lack of sleep I was not in any kind of headspace to read, but now I feel like I “lost” a day and I’ll fall behind on my TBR and now the world is going to end!!! (Narrator: It was not going to end over one day of not reading.) But I think by far it’s been a positive experience, if for no other reason than providing me a creative outlet that I DESPERATELY need.
That is SO true. I didn’t even touch of that, but you’re right: I’m way more aware of what’s being published, even if I’m not getting an ARC of it. But YES. Even though I have a lot of guilt and pressure I need to work on, I definitely wouldn’t give it up. It’s such an amazing outlet.
I think the positives for me have way outweighed the negatives, but you’re definitely right that both sides exist, especially when it comes to the pressures.
Yes, I agree (though I definitely focused more on the negatives in this post, since I was in a mood, apparently :P)!
My boss gets to give me deadlines. My blog is a hobby. I love that it connects me to other readers.
Yes, connecting with other readers is such a wonderful feeling!